The November Archive
The month of November makes me feel that life is passing more quickly. In an effort to slow it down, I try to fill the hours more meaningfully. (Henry Rolling)
some recommendations based on what i’ve been reading, watching and using in the month of november.





— to read
Lighthousekeeping by Jeanette Winterson. (1997)
(you can read my review here)
a quote that stuck with me: I used to be a hopeless romantic. I am still a hopeless romantic. I used to believe that love was the highest value. I still believe that love is the highest value. I don't expect to be happy. I don't imagine that I will find love, whatever that means, or that if I do find it, it will make me happy. I don't think of love as the answer or the solution. I think of love as a force of nature - as strong as the sun, as necessary, as impersonal, as gigantic, as impossible, as scorching as it is warming, as drought-making as it is life-giving. And when it burns out, the planet dies. My little orbit of life circles love.

— to listen
The Waterstones Podcast — Stanley Tucci

The A24 Podcast | Child's Play with Andrew Garfield & Harris Dickinson

— to watch
Music by John Williams directed by Laurent Bouzereau. (2024)
a quote that stuck with me: Music is enough for a lifetime, but a lifetime is not enough for music.

An Almost Christmas Story directed by David Lowery. (2024)
a quote that stuck with me: You have the kindest face I’ve seen all day.

Stepmom directed by Chris Columbus. (1998)
a quote that stuck with me: You know every story, every wound, every memory. Their whole life's happiness is wrapped up in you... every single second. Don't you get it? Look down the road to her wedding. I'm in a room alone with her, fixing her veil, fluffing her dress, telling her no woman has ever looked so beautiful. And my fear is she'll be thinking, "I wish my mom was here.

Doubt directed by John Patrick Shanley. (2008)
a quote that stuck with me:
— I wish I could be like you.
— Why?
— Because I can’t sleep anymore.
— Maybe we’re not supposed to sleep so well.

— to use
— Lo-fi playlist. (for always having a soundtrack in the background)
— Pentiment. (for a clever and engaging escape)
— Gemma Koomen. (for the most beautiful illustrations)
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